Starting Therapy: What to Expect
Starting therapy can feel overwhelming, especially when it is your first time.
A therapist's credentials and experience are important, but it's the quality of the connection you feel with them that matters most. Look for someone who is licensed, well trained, and experienced with the issues you want to work on. Reading client reviews can also give you a general sense of the therapist's communication style and what it may be like to work with them.
A brief phone or video conversation before the first appointment can give you a sense of the therapist's style and how comfortable you feel speaking with them. Notice whether they listen carefully, answer your questions clearly, and seem like someone you could talk with openly.
A good therapist can help you understand not only what you are feeling, but also the patterns and experiences that may be keeping the problem in place.
Therapy works best when you feel comfortable being honest about what you are thinking and feeling. You do not have to share everything right away, but over time you should feel able to speak openly without feeling judged.
The following questions may be helpful when choosing a therapist:
- What are your primary areas of focus?
- What type of professional license do you hold?
- How long have you been practicing?
- What therapeutic approaches do you use?
- What is your current availability?
- What is your cancellation policy?
- What is your fee for each session?
- Do you accept my insurance plan?
As therapy continues, it is important to talk openly about what is helping, what is not, and what you need from the process. Therapy works best when you and your therapist can look together at the patterns affecting you and find practical ways to make changes.
What Happens in Your First Therapy Session?
The first session focuses on what brings you to therapy, what has been happening in your life, and what you would like to change. Your therapist may ask about your personal history, current concerns, relationships, symptoms, previous therapy, medications, and any medical or life circumstances that may be affecting you.
When you are ready, you can contact me about getting started with online therapy in Colorado or Florida.

